Your Beliefs become your Thoughts, Your Thoughts become your Words, Your Words become your Actions, Your Actions become your Habits, Your Habits become your Values, Your Values become your Destiny --Mahatma Gandhi
Remember the definition of insanity? Doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different outcome?
Are you feeling stuck? Having the same types of things happening over and over? Try changing your mind...try expecting something different. If you change your thoughts and beliefs, everything else must change. You make different choices; you have a different experience.
Say you find yourself saying (often) "I never have enough money". How do you feel when you say that? Likely you feel depressed. Probably hopeless and helpless...what's the point of even trying? You feel that that thought is valid and true.
It's not easy to change your mind about this when your experience has been that you haven't had enough money.
The problem is, life sent you what you believed, thought, said and did, which became your habits, which created your choices, which validated what you believed...
So how do you begin? You a choose a new thought: "It's true I haven't had enough money in the past, but I'm choosing to invite abundance into my life, and I'm open to new opportunities to create that." Then you vividly see that happening. Picture opportunities showing up and you successfully taking them. Think that often, picture that in every detail, often. Catch yourself each time you have the old negative thought, and replace it. They say it takes at least 3 weeks of doing something repeatedly for it to become a habit. Changing the habits of thinking of a lifetime will take a bit of work. But, it can be done. Chances are you'll begin to feel more optimistic. Chances are you'll start looking around for ways to make that happen. Chances are you'll start making different choices than you have in the past, choices that are more likely to bring you what you desire than your past negative thoughts and choices did. You'll create new habits of thinking, which will create a different reality.
Try it; I have, and it works...